Okay. You have said you want to purpose God’s purpose for your life. You are weary of where you are and the thing you are doing. You want to seek His will and move forward. If only you could get just a little nudge. Here’s your nudge: “Get on with it, already!”
We have been following the life of Jacob for months now and we have seen that he is a fighter. Our cat Oscar we were told got his name because of his fascination with the garbage can. But we fancied the name because he was like the boxer “Oscar DeLehoya”. He too was a scrapper who never backed down or gave up. But then Oscar could also be called Jacob. He was heel grabber as well!
Jacob never got anywhere in life by fighting. It was only when he fully surrendered to God (in Genesis 35) that he gets on with it!
What did Jacob surrender?
1. Jacob surrendered his dreams. (Genesis 33:18)
Now Jacob came safely to the city of Shechem, which is in the land of Canaan, when he came from Paddan-aram, and camped before the city.
Jacob came into the land of Canaan. All of his talking life into his own hands had worked to drive him away from his destiny. Yielding to God his dreams led him where God had always wanted him to be. What do you want to do with your remaining days? Buy a home? Go on a trip to Europe? Write a book? Become Independently Wealthy?
For some of us, our dreams and how we might attain them are something we are not ready to surrender. But God would have all of you…even your dreams. There are a lot a directions you can go in this life, but have you surrendered to the one God wants us for you?
2. Jacob surrendered himself to the Dream Maker. (33:20)
Then he erected there an altar and called it El-Elohe-Israel. (God, the God of Israel)
The name of the altar: The God of Israel. This is a far cry from “God of my Fathers.” Or “God that I will bargain with.” That was how Jacob had viewed God until this moment. This is now the “God of ME.” He has now personalized His God. How about you? Is God just something your grandparents were into? Is He just something left on the flannel graph board in the mind of your childhood?
I was a youth minister for a number of years and I will tell the greatest joy in that position is seeing the light bulb go off in their mind when they realize that God wants THEM. When they finally attend church and youth group not because they HAVE to, but because they WANT to. He goes from “God of My Parents” to the “God of me.”
3. Jacob surrendered his idols. (35:2-3)
Jacob said to his household and to all who were with him, “Put away the foreign gods which are among you, and purify yourselves and change your garments;  and let us arise and go up to Bethel, and I will make an altar there to God
Jacob had finally came to the place where he staked his claim with God. He got rid of any rival and formed an allegiance with his Maker.
What do you have to surrender to God in the way of idols? Your work? Your hobby? Your paycheck? You know, we die a little each time we bow down to them.
4. Jacob surrendered his skepticism. (35:9-13)
Jacob had received a promise at birth from God, himself. God has never broken a single promise he has ever made. He cannot! And yet Jacob still lived just about his whole life keeping God’s promise at arm’s length. So on this great moment in Jacob’s life, God restates his promise to him:
Then God appeared to Jacob again when he came from Paddan-aram, and He blessed him.  God said to him, “Your name is Jacob; You shall no longer be called Jacob, But Israel shall be your name.” Thus He called him Israel.  God also said to him, “I am God Almighty; Be fruitful and multiply; A nation and a company of nations shall come from you, And kings shall come forth from you.  “The land which I gave to Abraham and Isaac, I will give it to you, And I will give the land to your descendants after you.”  Then God went up from him in the place where He had spoken with him.
Jacob hears it this time and this time believes it (shown by his worship that followed. v.14-15).
Charles Colson, in his book The Good Life shared about the time right after he got out of prison for his role in the Watergate scandal: “I had some very tempting offers in business and in law. I wanted to do something that was far less public. I wanted to be with my kids and spend some time getting my life together. Yet I kept feeling a persistent urge that I should be doing something for prisoners. That was not what I wanted to do. It’s not a very glamorous way to spend your life. A Washington acquaintance who befriended me during this period and organized a small prayer group for my support wanted me to work with political leaders through Bible studies. That certainly would have been logical.
Still, I couldn’t shake off the conviction that I was being called into prisons. Like Jacob of the Old Testament, I wrestled with God until the break of day. Jacob ended up with a bad hip; I ended up with a conviction that I should be in the prisons.”
Still wrestling with God? Remember that God still has a wonderful plan for you. And it is time to “get on with it!” What’s holding you back? Your view of God? Your skepticism? Your idols? Surrender them all… and get a move on! Your adventure awaits!